Tuesday, 13 May 2014

DO LOOKS MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Tuesday, May 13, 2014 By , , , 16 comments


Undoubtedly, it is one of the most enticing and contemplated question. Everybody, especially teenagers, are longing to know whether looks are the by-all and end-all things while going for a relationship. So, if you are one of those curious people then you have come to the right place for the answer, my friend.

Ouch! That didn't go well
I wouldn’t beat around the bush to tell you the truth, as that is time-wasting. The ugly truth is that looks do matter in a relationship. Well, not just in a relationship, but in almost everything in life. Be it an interview, an out-of-nowhere crush on somebody or what not? Our very first impression on someone comes from the way they look. It is the soul parameter through which we judge EVERYTHING about the person in front, whether he is knowledgeable, talented, a tharki or whatever. Looks answer everything. That’s what majority of the people staunchly believe in.

Seriously! -_-
With that thing in mind, the question rises whether a relationship is solely dependent on the looks of 2 people? And as they age, does the bond between the couples get infirm? There are a lot of such questions in queue.

Starting with the 1st question, are relationships only dependent on appearance? Clearly, the answer is NO. Looks do play a part, a nominal one, but there are other way too important things that bond 2 people together. Those things include understanding, compatibility, mutual respect and a heart that beats for one another irrespective of their mien. These things stand much above “appearance” and shall not be overlooked while choosing a life partner because looks can be deceptive, but nature can’t.

The second question answers itself now. With age, bond gets stronger instead of getting weak. This is how it works! I don’t know how, because I’m still in my early 20s.

Another question that might be crossing-through people’s mind, ‘I was so loyal, sweet, good-at-heart, then why did my partner leave me?’ You must have heard that people make mistakes, a hell lot of mistakes which they regret some or the other day. Consider it to be the reason, it will help and heel. That’s all I can comment about it.

‘I’m not good-looking; does this mean I have no chance of being in a relationship?’

Stop thinking like that because that will make you unnecessarily depressed. You are way better than many good-looking people out there, believe it. The only thing you need to have is patience. Be yourself and do what you like. The universe will conspire to make the most appropriate partner reach you.

Cent-percent true
At last, your nature and character is what that matters the most in life. And that should be the prime reason for other people falling in love with you. Rest everything is secondary, including looks. So, don’t be forlorn if you are not alluring.


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16 comments:

  1. Sir ..... prfctly said.... one of ur bst wrk

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    1. Thank you, Janice :)
      Delighted to know that!

      Keep visiting O:)

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  2. In teenage love, looks matter the most!!!
    In more mature and adult love, looks might take a sideline, and other things such as intelligence and sense of humor become more important...
    But... both love start with an attraction towards a person, and the first thing you look are the looks of a person...
    so i think looks are important to start a relationship but to carry forward that relationship, it is due to inner beauty only!

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    1. Rightly said! :)
      Why don't you write a post on the same topic? It will be great read! :)

      Keep visiting O:)

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    2. Hmm I definitely can!
      Lets see... I do have lots to say over this one ;-)

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    3. Let me know when you do that :)
      Looking forward to it!
      O:)

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  3. cutieayesha025@ymail.com14 May 2014 at 23:10

    Yes good looks matter but not for the rest of your life. ..It's the nature and character you do fell in love with...inner personality is immortal and counts for a longer relationship. . :) ♥♥

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    1. You said it :)

      Thank you for reading! O:)

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  4. Very nicely penned :) ..Looks obviously matter. But love gets its respect when a pair of eyes catch on to the inner-beauty factor.

    ~neha
    http://nehasjournal.blogspot.com/

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    1. Thank you, Neha :)
      Rightly said.

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  5. Well put! Looks may be the reason to fall in love but to stay in love there are things beyond looks.

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    1. Thank you :)
      That's rightly said!

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  6. The last portion says it all! Everything else is secondary! Nature and character are important :)
    Well written post, Varun!

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    1. Thank you, Aayesha :)
      And, indeed, that is the most important part of it!

      Keep visiting O:)

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  7. Well according to me looks, intelligence, humor, anything can ignite a spark between two people. Rest is how things fall between them after that spark. For some looks are important, for some financial stability, for some intelligence. Different things attract different people. So we humans do have different preferences. Everything matters depending upon person to person! Isn't it?

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    1. Wisely said. Why don't you do a post on the similar topic? Would be excellent to read. :)
      And, I can't disagree to what you are saying, as that is totally apt.
      Preferences change as people change.

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