Friday, 12 September 2014

6 Signs She Is Not Into You

Friday, September 12, 2014 By , , 8 comments

Everybody experiences a point in their life when they are smitten with somebody. In case of boys, this happens more than often. Sometimes, almost every other day. Anyway, keeping off tharkipana from this discussion, let us switch back to some prudent stuff.

So, you are looking forward to a girl since a very long time. And, just to make your place in her heart because you have an infatuation or love (whatever) for her, you call and message her umpteen times a day. You try every means that is out there just to get a place in her heart. But, somehow, you are unsure of her feelings for you, if any!

There also comes a point when you lose all your sense and temper thinking that had you put that many efforts to get an apartment in a metro city, it would have yielded great results. Even you recall mantra from a baba who has tremendous experience of love life and all that jazz: ‘Pyaar ka chakkar he bada bhayankar, isiliye haath jodo aur bolo Jai Shiv Shankar, Jai Shiv Shankar’

However, in spite of all these sensible (or insensible) thoughts and gyaan, your heart just doesn’t want to throw in the towel. So, what to do now? How to check whether your dream girl is into you or not?

So, for the same, here are certain points that will help you to cross check whether you have successfully booked a flat in her heart or you need to move on looking for another building (whatever):

1.    You are the one who always calls/texts: Are you the one who always calls her or texts her at the first place? Are you? And, even after your constant calls or texts, she responds once in a blue moon? Does it happen? If it happens, then my friend, she is not into you.

2.    She is not ready for a relationship: Well, this is the most common line that every girl uses when she is cornered by her one-sided lover. But, there is a hidden meaning to it. Do you know what?

By this sentence, she means that she is not ready for a relationship with you (forever). Seriously, people never reconsider their statements while breaking somebody else’s heart, especially of a person with whom they are not bonded. So, my Dhanush from Ranjhaana, stop chasing your Zoya because waha kuch nhi hoya! Move on.

3.    She is busy: Remember, nobody is ever busy for a person they like. This is a universal truth. Don’t believe me? Then recall all your coaching bunks for that ‘someone special.’ Kuch yaad aaya?!

So, if she constantly gives you a ‘I was busy’ reason for not getting in touch or avoiding contact, whatever, then that is a clear signal my friend; change the course and move in the other direction. The girl is gone.

4.    She talks about other guys with you: May be, you are lucky and your dream girl actually talks to you more than often. But, thehro (in Shaktimaan’s voice), did you notice what she talks about? Please pay attention to that because if she brings other guys in the conversation with you, then you are not going to make it to her heart. In other words, your girl is booked my friend. Sorry.

5.    She doesn’t laugh at your jokes: Laholbilakubat! A guy here finally cracks a great joke but that didn’t ring a bell to her. Such a bad situation. If this is something that you can relate to, then the time has come to flush her memories my Kapil Sharma.

6.    She tries to set you up with somebody else: Omg! Here you are trying to book a seat and she is all into setting you up with somebody else. Now, given that disastrous situation, you can only wish that the other person she is fixing you with is not a boy. Otherwise, Dostana 2 will soon hit the theatres with or without your consent. Bhaiya, time he, ijjat ki socho aur nikal lo.

At last, if she exhibits one of the above signs, it doesn't bode well for your cause. If she exhibits two to three of these signs, you can be pretty certain that she is not interested. If you are noticing more than three of the above signs, listen carefully, because it is never going to happen. Trust me, it is that clear.

So, if you are the unlucky one, then pack your bag and complain about the sour grapes, as most of us always do, and leave. After all, self-respect matters a lot and in India, it is more than just a word.

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Saturday, 6 September 2014

90's life and my evergreen love…

Saturday, September 06, 2014 By , 20 comments

I still remember my 90s life. There were minimum resources available. No peer pressure in comparison to what I feel today. Internet was a by-gone thing. And, all day long I only craved for the clock to strike 5 in the evening. It was my playtime which was so endearing to me that I could do anything for that. I could even wake up at whatever time one would ask me to play a game of cricket or soccer. I was that big a sports lover. However, there were limited games that I was fond of and basketball wasn’t one of them. Unfortunately, its consequence can be seen by the people who have seen me in real life.

I remember that big playground which was common for every sport whatsoever. From cricket, football to piddu and even an out of the blue cycle race were held on the same ground. Sometimes, all at the same time. There was no scarcity of players in those days. Call for one and get 3 more players for free. Even, everyone was a Sachin, Messi and Osain Bolt in their own way. And, almost everyone had their pet field name. Mine was Michael Clark.

I still wonder why that guy named me Clark because I was an all-rounder who was capable enough to perform in both batting and bowling. On the contrary, Michael Clark is more of a batsman. I guess, that guy who named me wasn’t aware about Cricket that much. Anyway, I was elated to get a name to the least because there were ample of others who weren’t nick named yet. But, today I realize that it is difficult to build a reputation of your own than to acquire somebody else’s. I was na├»ve back then and such big things were far fletched for me to contemplate about.

I remember that football-cum-run-behind-a-ball-game that had no rules on the field. The only time people used to stop when the ball had crossed the goal post making a goal or no goal, whatsoever. I and my friends were crazy back then. We watched cricket but loved playing football more. For us, Ronaldo was the only player of football in the whole world. Everyone wanted to be ‘Ronaldo.’ However, majority ended up getting sardonic remarks, like, ‘Bada aaya Ronaldo banne chala he’ and many more.

Now, the time has changed drastically. Fields have turned into beautiful enclaves. We have grown up both physically and intellectually too. Everyone is busy with their life doing some or the other thing. Everyone is running to win a race, but not in the field. But, in spite of all these things, one thing that still persists is the sportsmanship. I can’t testify for others but even today if someone would ask to get up in the morning to play any sports (except basketball), I would be the first one to reach the field. And, I’m happy to retain that love for sports till date in my life.

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Wednesday, 3 September 2014

Life and a window seat

Wednesday, September 03, 2014 By , 2 comments

It seems like; posting anything on the blog after a month has become a habit for me which is hard to change. But, that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be more active on the blog. Of course, being the most active blogger is the ultimate aim of everyone who blogs (added with ample of readers). And that is mine too.


Anyway, the fact that I’m here (and you are here too) always entitles me to write something to grip your attention till the end and in the process satisfy myself through expression of thoughts. Well, the latter being the more significant part. That being said, it doesn’t mean I don’t love your presence. Your presence is deeply respected and delightful for me which goes unsaid.

Keeping everything in mind, here I come to the point. This morning (that’s not important) while travelling through a bus, as always, I was looking outside the window. I was lucky to get the window seat like most of the time. It is my favorite. Reason being, if you dislike something which is going inside the bus, all you got to do is to stare out of the window. This one thing has always motivated me to get that seat by hook or by crook.

Sitting on the window seat and looking outside at random people doing random things is itself very interesting. At times, it is even motivating it its own way. You see ample of things, like, children going to school or bunking, whatever; shopkeepers resting in their shop and passing time by watching something on the mini-television. Likewise, there are many activities that go on and on. And, we just pass through them.

This gives me a sense that life never stops at any point. It goes on and on, showing its every colour to us. Testing us, tricking us, but ultimately teaching us something in the end. Life is full of colours; we just need the right eyes to see those. By this, I don’t mean that you should go to an eye specialist. It is philosophy; it automatically comes while you are graduating. Just, from engineers, it comes out more quickly.

Well, talking about philosophy, there is a self-made quote: Philosophy comes out when you are heartbroken, married, wasted or you are an engineering student. Well, the last part can be replaced with any course and it will still work. Since, I’m an engineering student, so putting it upfront was necessary. It is called brand promotion. Marketing people would know.

Anyway, the post has come to an end and without a farewell card or treat I would like to thank you for being a ‘Musafir’ till the end of this post. May be, it wasn’t the best of the post from me, but I’m very sure that you must have enjoyed the journey from the start till the end! After all, the most fascinating thing about reaching a destination is the journey we go through.