Friday, 12 September 2014
6 Signs She Is Not Into You
Everybody
experiences a point in their life when they are smitten with somebody. In case
of boys, this happens more than often. Sometimes, almost every other day.
Anyway, keeping off tharkipana from this discussion, let us switch back to some
prudent stuff.
So,
you are looking forward to a girl since a very long time. And, just to make
your place in her heart because you have an infatuation or love (whatever) for
her, you call and message her umpteen times a day. You try every means that is
out there just to get a place in her heart. But, somehow, you are unsure of her
feelings for you, if any!
There
also comes a point when you lose all your sense and temper thinking that had
you put that many efforts to get an apartment in a metro city, it would have
yielded great results. Even you recall mantra from a baba who has tremendous
experience of love life and all that jazz: ‘Pyaar
ka chakkar he bada bhayankar, isiliye haath jodo aur bolo Jai Shiv Shankar, Jai
Shiv Shankar’
However,
in spite of all these sensible (or insensible) thoughts and gyaan, your heart
just doesn’t want to throw in the towel. So, what to do now? How to check
whether your dream girl is into you or not?
So,
for the same, here are certain points that will help you to cross check whether
you have successfully booked a flat in her heart or you need to move on looking
for another building (whatever):
1.
You are the one
who always calls/texts: Are you the
one who always calls her or texts her at the first place? Are you? And, even
after your constant calls or texts, she responds once in a blue moon? Does it
happen? If it happens, then my friend, she is not into you.
2.
She is not
ready for a relationship: Well, this is
the most common line that every girl uses when she is cornered by her one-sided
lover. But, there is a hidden meaning to it. Do you know what?
By this sentence, she means that she is not ready
for a relationship with you (forever). Seriously, people never reconsider their
statements while breaking somebody else’s heart, especially of a person with
whom they are not bonded. So, my Dhanush from Ranjhaana, stop chasing your Zoya
because waha kuch nhi hoya! Move on.
3.
She is busy: Remember, nobody is ever busy for a person they
like. This is a universal truth. Don’t believe me? Then recall all your
coaching bunks for that ‘someone special.’ Kuch yaad aaya?!
So, if she constantly gives you a ‘I was busy’
reason for not getting in touch or avoiding contact, whatever, then that is a
clear signal my friend; change the course and move in the other direction. The
girl is gone.
4.
She talks about
other guys with you: May be, you
are lucky and your dream girl actually talks to you more than often. But,
thehro (in Shaktimaan’s voice), did you notice what she talks about? Please pay
attention to that because if she brings other guys in the conversation with
you, then you are not going to make it to her heart. In other words, your girl
is booked my friend. Sorry.
5.
She doesn’t
laugh at your jokes: Laholbilakubat!
A guy here finally cracks a great joke but that didn’t ring a bell to her. Such
a bad situation. If this is something that you can relate to, then the time has
come to flush her memories my Kapil Sharma.
6.
She tries to
set you up with somebody else: Omg!
Here you are trying to book a seat and she is all into setting you up with
somebody else. Now, given that disastrous situation, you can only wish that the
other person she is fixing you with is not a boy. Otherwise, Dostana 2 will
soon hit the theatres with or without your consent. Bhaiya, time he, ijjat ki socho aur nikal lo.
At last, if she exhibits one of the above signs,
it doesn't bode well for your cause. If she exhibits two to three of these
signs, you can be pretty certain that she is not interested. If you are noticing
more than three of the above signs, listen carefully, because it is never going
to happen. Trust me, it is that clear.
So, if you are the unlucky one, then pack your bag
and complain about the sour grapes, as most of us always do, and leave. After
all, self-respect matters a lot and in India, it is more than just a word.
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Saturday, 6 September 2014
90's life and my evergreen love…
I
still remember my 90s life. There were minimum resources available. No peer
pressure in comparison to what I feel today. Internet was a by-gone thing. And,
all day long I only craved for the clock to strike 5 in the evening. It was my
playtime which was so endearing to me that I could do anything for that. I
could even wake up at whatever time one would ask me to play a game of cricket
or soccer. I was that big a sports lover. However, there were limited games
that I was fond of and basketball wasn’t one of them. Unfortunately, its consequence
can be seen by the people who have seen me in real life.
I
remember that big playground which was common for every sport whatsoever. From
cricket, football to piddu and even an out of the blue cycle race were held on
the same ground. Sometimes, all at the same time. There was no scarcity of
players in those days. Call for one and get 3 more players for free. Even, everyone
was a Sachin, Messi and Osain Bolt in their own way. And, almost everyone had
their pet field name. Mine was Michael Clark.
I
still wonder why that guy named me Clark because I was an all-rounder who was
capable enough to perform in both batting and bowling. On the contrary, Michael
Clark is more of a batsman. I guess, that guy who named me wasn’t aware about
Cricket that much. Anyway, I was elated to get a name to the least because
there were ample of others who weren’t nick named yet. But, today I realize
that it is difficult to build a reputation of your own than to acquire somebody
else’s. I was naïve back then and such big things were far fletched for me to
contemplate about.
I
remember that football-cum-run-behind-a-ball-game that had no rules on the
field. The only time people used to stop when the ball had crossed the goal
post making a goal or no goal, whatsoever. I and my friends were crazy back
then. We watched cricket but loved playing football more. For us, Ronaldo was
the only player of football in the whole world. Everyone wanted to be ‘Ronaldo.’
However, majority ended up getting sardonic remarks, like, ‘Bada aaya Ronaldo
banne chala he’ and many more.
Now,
the time has changed drastically. Fields have turned into beautiful enclaves. We
have grown up both physically and intellectually too. Everyone is busy with
their life doing some or the other thing. Everyone is running to win a race,
but not in the field. But, in spite of all these things, one thing that still
persists is the sportsmanship. I can’t testify for others but even today if
someone would ask to get up in the morning to play any sports (except
basketball), I would be the first one to reach the field. And, I’m happy to
retain that love for sports till date in my life.
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Wednesday, 3 September 2014
Life and a window seat
It seems
like; posting anything on the blog after a month has become a habit for me
which is hard to change. But, that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be more
active on the blog. Of course, being the most active blogger is the ultimate
aim of everyone who blogs (added with ample of readers). And that is mine too.
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Anyway,
the fact that I’m here (and you are here too) always entitles me to write
something to grip your attention till the end and in the process satisfy myself
through expression of thoughts. Well, the latter being the more significant
part. That being said, it doesn’t mean I don’t love your presence. Your
presence is deeply respected and delightful for me which goes unsaid.
Keeping
everything in mind, here I come to the point. This morning (that’s not
important) while travelling through a bus, as always, I was looking outside the
window. I was lucky to get the window seat like most of the time. It is my
favorite. Reason being, if you dislike something which is going inside the bus,
all you got to do is to stare out of the window. This one thing has always
motivated me to get that seat by hook or by crook.
Sitting
on the window seat and looking outside at random people doing random things is
itself very interesting. At times, it is even motivating it its own way. You
see ample of things, like, children going to school or bunking, whatever;
shopkeepers resting in their shop and passing time by watching something on the
mini-television. Likewise, there are many activities that go on and
on. And, we just pass through them.
This
gives me a sense that life never stops at any point. It goes on and on, showing
its every colour to us. Testing us, tricking us, but ultimately teaching us
something in the end. Life is full of colours; we just need the right eyes to
see those. By this, I don’t mean that you should go to an eye specialist. It is
philosophy; it automatically comes while you are graduating. Just, from
engineers, it comes out more quickly.
Well,
talking about philosophy, there is a self-made quote: Philosophy comes out when
you are heartbroken, married, wasted or you are an engineering student. Well,
the last part can be replaced with any course and it will still work.
Since, I’m an engineering student, so putting it upfront was necessary. It is
called brand promotion. Marketing people would know.
Anyway,
the post has come to an end and without a farewell card or treat I would like
to thank you for being a ‘Musafir’ till the end of this post. May be, it wasn’t
the best of the post from me, but I’m very sure that you must have enjoyed the journey
from the start till the end! After all, the most fascinating thing about
reaching a destination is the journey we go through.
