Saturday 19 October 2013
ARE RELATIONSHIPS WORTH IT ?
DISCLAIMER: I
SHALL NOT BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THE NUMBER OF BREAKUPS THAT MIGHT TAKE PLACE
AFTER READING THIS POST. :P
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“Being in a relationship is a full time job,
so don’t apply if you are not ready”
You will actually
encounter ample of such quotes on the web if you happen to search the keyword- ‘Relationships’. So, are relationships bad? Of course NOT.
Then, are they good? The answer is still the same i.e NO.
Why
relationships are not bad?
It is good to be in a
relationship, after all you can't blame everything on GOD and Government. Jokes
apart, sharing your dreams with someone, having someone that supports those
dreams and loves you no matter how cranky, crazy or stupid you could be at
times is a great thing. Being able to just be yourself completely with that one
person and having that person love you because of who you are is itself
euphoric. Thus, relationships are not
bad. Hence Proved. (Correct. 5 marks) :D
But, this does not
end here. As, one might object, there are heartbreaks and certainly a risk
attached to relationships, so is it still worth going for?
Life is a risk, isn’t
it? So are relationships. You didn't stop learning to walk just because you
fell down as a kid, did you? No, you cried and you got back up. That is the way relationships (and even life)
goes on. You will get dumped, heart broken, ditched and even the person whom you
do love will hurt your feelings frequently. But the difference lies in knowing
that you can pick yourself up, you can move on and be a whole new person again,
much stronger than you were earlier. Amazing, isn’t?
Anyway, enough of
encouragement for the love birds. Now, talking about the practical life situation.
Relationships are not bad, I just proved it. But, they are NOT good either if
you indulge into one before the right time.
Now, when exactly does
that right time comes in anyone’s life? Frankly, when you have a well
established career. I know, it is hard NOT to stalk your crush, but this is the
game of life my friend. If you want something, you got to sacrifice something
in return.
There is a bizarre tendency
or fashion, whatever you call it, of making boyfriend/girlfriend, profusely in
effect now a days. And shockingly, it is highly observed in teenagers and adults (of a certain age group).
Text-talk-text for
hours and hours, skipping the school/college assignments and abandoning the night's
sleep for those worthless Lovy-Dovy talk. Also, wasting the numerous amount of
money in cell phone balance, screwing up the result drastically and what not? I
can’t mention everything that those people simply relinquish for their beloved
ones.
To them, my question
is, what do you gain from it? Be pragmatic while answering this question (or at
least, ponder about it) but don’t be too frank, as I’m in no mood of knowing
the personal details!
On an overall basis, ‘Nothing
at all’, right? So, when something is not worth going for, then why are you up to
it? Why are you chasing people to eventually end up with a gloomy face? Why are
you wasting your time on such elusive things?
Ask these questions
to yourself and you will have some really outrageous answers. So, finally, are relationships
worth it? Yes, they are, provided you happen to tangle yourself with it at the
right time. Until then, stop misusing your precious time, as it is said, “Wasting
Time is Robbing Oneself”.
P.S:
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in to the not-so-fancy reality.
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kya baat hai varun...so many of posts about relationships...hmmmm??
ReplyDeletebaat kya hai?? ;)
On a mission to aware people for a greater good :D :P :)
Deletebtw its kinda true...i 'kinda' agree to it ;) :P
ReplyDeleteGlad to know I've a vote in favor :D ;) :)
DeleteBut Loving someone is a beautiful feeling........if you really love someone and the other guy or girl also loves you....there is no gain or loss related to it.....Its correct that its a trend nowadays i agree for that !!
ReplyDeleteExactly, loving someone is not bad BUT making a mess of your life for lovy-dovy stuffs is a bad thing. Priorities should be fixed. :)
DeleteYa that right Varun......But nowadays nobody cares for this thing.......By the way nice post gud job :)
DeletePeople are too blind to notice the background reality.
DeleteThank you :)
#Happy
Appreciable , keep it up
ReplyDeleteThank you :)
Deleteduh...
ReplyDeleteworthless lovy-dovy talk..cell phone ka balance (YOU COULD HAVE MENTIONED TIME.. THAT COUNTS MOER THAN MONEY) and results.(BEING IN LOVE DOESNT EQUALIZE TO NOT STUDYING UNLESS ONE IS A DORK
you are confusing yourself with real relationships where people can talk to each other all night long and not get bored of it ( WHO SAID THAT THEY DO IT EVERY NIGHT ? ),
Generalizing this post for typical reasons people give who fail in their relationship isn't fair.. the write up sounds less like a awareness and more like a self-experienced misery ( OFF-course, nothing personal )
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No offense..
best regards..
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You are mixing different aspects of the topic. And that 2nd para of your comment is nothing else but frustration of something else! No offence. :P
DeleteAnd, I didn't mention time specially because I thought that was pretty obvious to guess! Also, I didn't write people talk every night, did I?
o.O
Lastly, it was, in my perspective, a generalized post. Anticipation by the people makes the whole difference.
#NoDebateInDemand
Nice Post Varun!!
ReplyDeleteThank you sir :)
Deletelovely! point proven!!
ReplyDeletebest line, "wasting time is robbing oneself" :)
Absolutely Aayesha :)
DeletePlus, thank you :)
Keep visiting O:)
My vote in favour too
ReplyDeleteVote taken Pratyush :)
DeleteKeep visiting O:)