Saturday, 19 October 2013

ARE RELATIONSHIPS WORTH IT ?

Saturday, October 19, 2013 By , 18 comments


DISCLAIMER: I SHALL NOT BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THE NUMBER OF BREAKUPS THAT MIGHT TAKE PLACE AFTER READING THIS POST. :P



“Relationships are never bad, people are”

 “Being in a relationship is a full time job, so don’t apply if you are not ready”

You will actually encounter ample of such quotes on the web if you happen to search the keyword- ‘Relationships’.  So, are relationships bad? Of course NOT. Then, are they good? The answer is still the same i.e NO.

Why relationships are not bad?

It is good to be in a relationship, after all you can't blame everything on GOD and Government. Jokes apart, sharing your dreams with someone, having someone that supports those dreams and loves you no matter how cranky, crazy or stupid you could be at times is a great thing. Being able to just be yourself completely with that one person and having that person love you because of who you are is itself euphoric.  Thus, relationships are not bad. Hence Proved. (Correct. 5 marks) :D

But, this does not end here. As, one might object, there are heartbreaks and certainly a risk attached to relationships, so is it still worth going for?

Life is a risk, isn’t it? So are relationships. You didn't stop learning to walk just because you fell down as a kid, did you? No, you cried and you got back up.  That is the way relationships (and even life) goes on. You will get dumped, heart broken, ditched and even the person whom you do love will hurt your feelings frequently. But the difference lies in knowing that you can pick yourself up, you can move on and be a whole new person again, much stronger than you were earlier. Amazing, isn’t?

Anyway, enough of encouragement for the love birds. Now, talking about the practical life situation. Relationships are not bad, I just proved it. But, they are NOT good either if you indulge into one before the right time.

Now, when exactly does that right time comes in anyone’s life? Frankly, when you have a well established career. I know, it is hard NOT to stalk your crush, but this is the game of life my friend. If you want something, you got to sacrifice something in return.

There is a bizarre tendency or fashion, whatever you call it, of making boyfriend/girlfriend, profusely in effect now a days. And shockingly, it is highly observed in teenagers and  adults (of a certain age group).

Text-talk-text for hours and hours, skipping the school/college assignments and abandoning the night's sleep for those worthless Lovy-Dovy talk. Also, wasting the numerous amount of money in cell phone balance, screwing up the result drastically and what not? I can’t mention everything that those people simply relinquish for their beloved ones.

To them, my question is, what do you gain from it? Be pragmatic while answering this question (or at least, ponder about it) but don’t be too frank, as I’m in no mood of knowing the personal details!

On an overall basis, ‘Nothing at all’, right? So, when something is not worth going for, then why are you up to it? Why are you chasing people to eventually end up with a gloomy face? Why are you wasting your time on such elusive things?

Ask these questions to yourself and you will have some really outrageous answers. So, finally, are relationships worth it? Yes, they are, provided you happen to tangle yourself with it at the right time. Until then, stop misusing your precious time, as it is said, “Wasting Time is Robbing Oneself”.

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18 comments:

  1. kya baat hai varun...so many of posts about relationships...hmmmm??
    baat kya hai?? ;)

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    1. On a mission to aware people for a greater good :D :P :)

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  2. btw its kinda true...i 'kinda' agree to it ;) :P

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    1. Glad to know I've a vote in favor :D ;) :)

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  3. But Loving someone is a beautiful feeling........if you really love someone and the other guy or girl also loves you....there is no gain or loss related to it.....Its correct that its a trend nowadays i agree for that !!

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    1. Exactly, loving someone is not bad BUT making a mess of your life for lovy-dovy stuffs is a bad thing. Priorities should be fixed. :)

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    2. Ya that right Varun......But nowadays nobody cares for this thing.......By the way nice post gud job :)

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    3. People are too blind to notice the background reality.
      Thank you :)
      #Happy

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  4. duh...
    worthless lovy-dovy talk..cell phone ka balance (YOU COULD HAVE MENTIONED TIME.. THAT COUNTS MOER THAN MONEY) and results.(BEING IN LOVE DOESNT EQUALIZE TO NOT STUDYING UNLESS ONE IS A DORK
    you are confusing yourself with real relationships where people can talk to each other all night long and not get bored of it ( WHO SAID THAT THEY DO IT EVERY NIGHT ? ),
    Generalizing this post for typical reasons people give who fail in their relationship isn't fair.. the write up sounds less like a awareness and more like a self-experienced misery ( OFF-course, nothing personal )
    ........
    No offense..
    best regards..
    .

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    1. You are mixing different aspects of the topic. And that 2nd para of your comment is nothing else but frustration of something else! No offence. :P
      And, I didn't mention time specially because I thought that was pretty obvious to guess! Also, I didn't write people talk every night, did I?
      o.O
      Lastly, it was, in my perspective, a generalized post. Anticipation by the people makes the whole difference.

      #NoDebateInDemand

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  5. lovely! point proven!!
    best line, "wasting time is robbing oneself" :)

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    1. Absolutely Aayesha :)
      Plus, thank you :)
      Keep visiting O:)

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    1. Vote taken Pratyush :)
      Keep visiting O:)

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