Saturday, 26 April 2014
Be Good, But Don’t Do This 1 Thing
I
often see people around me unhappy or depressed even more than the times they
are happy. On interrogating about their problem, I have come across different
sort of reasons that makes them gloomy.
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Here,
I won’t be putting up the list of reasons that make people sad, as that would
be pretty lame and seem to be endless in a way! But, I will tell 1 reason that makes
most of the people unhappy. By the way, it is my perspective and you are not
entitled to agree. However, do care to read till the end to find about the
reason and a solution to it. May be, this post will bring up the jolly-you out!
Who knows?
Everybody
is good at heart (if not every time, then at least, some of the time), believe
it or not. But, sometimes we want to hear it from people (read: a lot of
people) that they find us to be a good person. That statement, though small,
but has the power to make our day. It can also bring us back from doldrums. In
short, it can change the picture of our life for a few hours or a day or two
(depends).
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However,
on the process of forming a good-guy image compels us to do a lot of stuffs for
countless number of people. And that thing my friend, doesn’t always pay back
well. Sometimes there is not even a mere thank you. Other sweet gestures are
way too much to contemplate about. And, this eventually turns out to be the
reason for us being downcast.
We
know we are good (believe me) but what goes wrong is that we try to prove it to
everybody out there, which is not a great thing to do. We need to understand
that in life we can’t make everyone happy. We need to stand on our grounds and
be what we are and do what we like, if inner-peace is what we are looking
forward to.
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So,
there is no need to portray what we are not for mere plaudits which are not
durable. Instead, we should be what we actually are and have a little patience,
then the most appropriate people will automatically come into our lives. That
way, we won’t have to chase people and eventually make ourselves doleful.
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Friday, 18 April 2014
Happy Birthday Fella :)
My best wishes for an incredibly joyous day filled with lots of laughter and birthday cake.
Happy Birthday Kamal :)
Treat awaits now :D
Thursday, 17 April 2014
DHEERE CHALA LE MIYA
Yesterday
evening, while crossing a square, I was luckily saved from crashing down to
another vehicle because of a guy who thought he was playing GTA on a public
road! Thank GOD, I got saved in spite of not having CEAT tires on my vehicle!
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Well,
this is not the end. A week ago, while returning from the 5th day’s
3rd show of Captain America: The Winter Soldier (read: Captain America: Maha Dabangg), another accident took place
right in front of me (for the first time).
3 guys on a Suzuki Access, 125cc scooter (I
want money for all these advertisements now) came rushing and hit on a guy
who was on a bicycle! Wish I could run down to those bastards and beat the shit
out of them who escaped the scene immediately. I wish! However, I helped the
victim get back his senses and reassemble his almost rickety bicycle which
itself seemed to have gone into a shock!
Anyway,
I’m not here to advertise the brands and to tell the stories of accidents. Instead,
I’m here to point to a very serious problem that we all are facing in our
day-to-day life. The problem of ‘Teez-Daudti-Gaadiyan’
which are driven by non-other than ‘Mai-Ke-Laal-Show-Makers’
(Hindi version of Michael Schumacher)
who seem to be in a competition of sending people (read: totally innocent people) to hospital.
I
don’t understand why people drive so fast? If they can’t reach late, then
better start early! It is good to end where you wished to than ending up at a
hospital. Or in worst cases, make somebody else reach to a hospital! So, pace
up with your home activities and start early to reach safely. This will save a
lot of people, including you, from getting injured, trust me.
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The
other segment of people who drive fast because they think that people (especially, girls) are wishing to see
them rush the guts out of their vehicle! Nobody is waiting for anybody, so
dheere chala le miya. Ghar pohochna hai ki nahi? And, also keep this thing in
mind, speed thrills but kills! Kills you, not the girls in a different sense!
So, drive slowly “Valentino Rossi”.
The
conclusion is just that there are a lot of people, including me, who want to
come back home safely, every day. So, please calm down you stunt-guy-from-fast-and-the-furious
and slow down your freaking vehicle for the love of GOD.
P.S:
I don’t know if you are aware or not, but Michael Schumacher who was in coma
because of an accident that took place last year, has finally shown small signs
of progress. I wish he recovers soon. Please Pray for him!
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Monday, 7 April 2014
6 TIPS TO HELP YOU MOVE ON AFTER A BREAK-UP
That feels ;_;
Everybody
falls in love now and then, but only a few starts with a relationship
successfully! After that they spend a lot of time together, cherish some
incredible memories and do a hell lot of things (few of which can’t be
mentioned over here). But, someday, somehow, things fall apart and they
break-up.
Break-up,
unlike its name, is very difficult to deal with until people find the right
support from somewhere (like, this post). There are many things to
deal with after the unwanted scenario which need patience, mind-set
and what not? Everything seems less!
So, here
are 6 quick tips to help people move on after a break up:
Accept that the
relationship has come to an end:
This is
the hardest but most important step in letting go of a past relationship.
Accepting things is a form of closure which shouldn’t be deliberately avoided
by keeping false hopes alive! So, go on and tell yourself about the harsh
reality. At first, it will be difficult, but eventually, this will mark as the
beginning of a whole new person in you.
Catch up
with your social life:
Most
people tend to detach themselves from their social life after a break-up. They
forget that there are a lot of other people apart from their partner. And,
this is a big mistake that they commit. So, you are intelligent enough not to
walk on the same line and hurt yourself over and over again by being
in solitude. Thus, walk out, catch up with your friends, relatives or anybody
who cheers you up, and trust me, you will be delighted.
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Don’t
Internet stalk your ex:
Internet
is a by all and end all thing for almost everybody now-a-days. And, right after
a break up, it is a great source to escape from the reality. However, people do
this mistake of checking out (read: stalk) their partner’s Facebook profile or
any other social profiles. Reading their posts can also keep you
stuck in false hopes. Do not do this, as it will hurt just 1 person whom you
love the most i.e. you!
Don’t fall
for ‘Just friends’ theory:
Going for
‘just friends’ with your ex is a form of investment which will ultimately send
you to doldrums. So, frankly, do not go for it. It never works, as either of
the 2 people always have some feelings left for the other person.
Destroy
their photographs, gifts etc.:
Yes! Take
some lessons from Jab We Met and apply it in your own life. This will actually
help. The time you will do it will be the most difficult one, but once you are
done with it, hell yeah, you gonna come out fresh! So, do not skip this
point at any cost.
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Don’t go
for another relationship:
This is
the biggest blunder people commit after a break-up, of going for another
relationship in order to move on with their past life. It hardly
works. If it was simply that easy, no one would ever need to read an article
about letting go and moving on from a relationship that’s ended.
Time
heels everything. So, keep patience and let things come back to normal. And,
you will be amazed to see that with the time and space you’ve allowed
yourself, you’ll be able to better understand if this new relationship is one
that will be healthy and positive.
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Tuesday, 1 April 2014
YAY! IT’S THE APRIL FOOL’S DAY
It is the day,
provided we know the date and its significance, when we try to play a prank on
everybody around us and hope to succeed with it. And, on this ironically ‘auspicious’
day, I remember a prank I once played on one of my friend.
It was 2009, and I
was pretty much bored with the traditional, ‘See-there’s-a-plane’ trick.
Important to mention, watching a plane on those days were a great thing for any
kid! Anyway, so, I had to do something extraordinary without getting beaten up
in the end, which was difficult though! Then, out of nowhere the master plan hit
my mind. May be, the ‘Sona Chandi Chyawanprash’ showed its effect that day, for
the first time!
So, I went to my
friend’s place and somehow convinced him to play GTA (Grant Theft Auto) (Google
it), on his computer. He switched on his machine and as soon as it completed
loading, I asked for a glass of water. So, he went to do the needful and meanwhile,
I started with the ‘Mojo-jo-jo’ plan.
I quickly took the
screen shot of his desktop and made a wallpaper of it through paint (Google it
too, if you are not aware; as it isn’t a tech-blog). Then, I deleted all the
icons from his desktop (Note: Not permanently, as that would have been too
harsh on him and later on my ass) and set that as the wallpaper. By the
time he returned, I was done with the set-up. Yay, I said to myself!
He occupied his seat
and clicked on the GTA shortcut on his desktop. It didn’t work (why would it?).
He then tried a couple of more shortcuts in vain. Thereafter, he became gloomy
and was at the verge of wetting his pants, and then, I just couldn’t control my
laughter anymore. I started laughing like ‘Joker’ from Batman and he looked at
me just how a sheep would look at the butcher.
After that, I recited
the regular, ‘April fool banaya, bada maza aaya’ line some uncountable times, and,
eventually fixed everything. I also remember, there was a terrible pain down
the private parts that day while walking back home. But, I tell you, it was
worth it.
Words of wisdom:
Do
wear guards (especially, abdo guard) the next time you wish to play a prank. It
will help retain something really important.
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