Monday, 7 April 2014


Monday, April 07, 2014 By , , , 8 comments

That feels ;_;

Everybody falls in love now and then, but only a few starts with a relationship successfully! After that they spend a lot of time together, cherish some incredible memories and do a hell lot of things (few of which can’t be mentioned over here). But, someday, somehow, things fall apart and they break-up.
Break-up, unlike its name, is very difficult to deal with until people find the right support from somewhere (like, this post). There are many things to deal with after the unwanted scenario which need patience, mind-set and what not? Everything seems less!
So, here are 6 quick tips to help people move on after a break up:

Accept that the relationship has come to an end:
This is the hardest but most important step in letting go of a past relationship. Accepting things is a form of closure which shouldn’t be deliberately avoided by keeping false hopes alive! So, go on and tell yourself about the harsh reality. At first, it will be difficult, but eventually, this will mark as the beginning of a whole new person in you.

Catch up with your social life:
Most people tend to detach themselves from their social life after a break-up. They forget that there are a lot of other people apart from their partner. And, this is a big mistake that they commit. So, you are intelligent enough not to walk on the same line and hurt yourself over and over again by being in solitude. Thus, walk out, catch up with your friends, relatives or anybody who cheers you up, and trust me, you will be delighted.


Don’t Internet stalk your ex:
Internet is a by all and end all thing for almost everybody now-a-days. And, right after a break up, it is a great source to escape from the reality. However, people do this mistake of checking out (read: stalk) their partner’s Facebook profile or any other social profiles. Reading their posts can also keep you stuck in false hopes. Do not do this, as it will hurt just 1 person whom you love the most i.e. you!

Don’t fall for ‘Just friends’ theory:
Going for ‘just friends’ with your ex is a form of investment which will ultimately send you to doldrums. So, frankly, do not go for it. It never works, as either of the 2 people always have some feelings left for the other person.

Destroy their photographs, gifts etc.:
Yes! Take some lessons from Jab We Met and apply it in your own life. This will actually help. The time you will do it will be the most difficult one, but once you are done with it, hell yeah, you gonna come out fresh! So, do not skip this point at any cost.


Don’t go for another relationship:
This is the biggest blunder people commit after a break-up, of going for another relationship in order to move on with their past life. It hardly works. If it was simply that easy, no one would ever need to read an article about letting go and moving on from a relationship that’s ended.

Time heels everything. So, keep patience and let things come back to normal. And, you will be amazed to see that with the time and space you’ve allowed yourself, you’ll be able to better understand if this new relationship is one that will be healthy and positive.

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  1. Everyone Falls in love and also eventually fall out :) Happens... Really sometimes its hard to move on. But faith is important. Thanks for sharing this article... Helpful

    1. Indeed :)
      And, your welcome! :)
      Pleasure is always mine.
      Keep visiting O:)

  2. You know such posts from you alwayz make me wonder whether you are speaking from some sort of experience

    1. There is always some experience involved, but it will remain unclear who had that experience :P

  3. amazing article!!
    loved reading it

    1. Thank you, Sonali :)
      Glad to know that you loved it!

      Keep visiting O:)