Monday, 7 April 2014
6 TIPS TO HELP YOU MOVE ON AFTER A BREAK-UP
That feels ;_;
Everybody
falls in love now and then, but only a few starts with a relationship
successfully! After that they spend a lot of time together, cherish some
incredible memories and do a hell lot of things (few of which can’t be
mentioned over here). But, someday, somehow, things fall apart and they
break-up.
Break-up,
unlike its name, is very difficult to deal with until people find the right
support from somewhere (like, this post). There are many things to
deal with after the unwanted scenario which need patience, mind-set
and what not? Everything seems less!
So, here
are 6 quick tips to help people move on after a break up:
Accept that the
relationship has come to an end:
This is
the hardest but most important step in letting go of a past relationship.
Accepting things is a form of closure which shouldn’t be deliberately avoided
by keeping false hopes alive! So, go on and tell yourself about the harsh
reality. At first, it will be difficult, but eventually, this will mark as the
beginning of a whole new person in you.
Catch up
with your social life:
Most
people tend to detach themselves from their social life after a break-up. They
forget that there are a lot of other people apart from their partner. And,
this is a big mistake that they commit. So, you are intelligent enough not to
walk on the same line and hurt yourself over and over again by being
in solitude. Thus, walk out, catch up with your friends, relatives or anybody
who cheers you up, and trust me, you will be delighted.
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| DO IT! |
Don’t
Internet stalk your ex:
Internet
is a by all and end all thing for almost everybody now-a-days. And, right after
a break up, it is a great source to escape from the reality. However, people do
this mistake of checking out (read: stalk) their partner’s Facebook profile or
any other social profiles. Reading their posts can also keep you
stuck in false hopes. Do not do this, as it will hurt just 1 person whom you
love the most i.e. you!
Don’t fall
for ‘Just friends’ theory:
Going for
‘just friends’ with your ex is a form of investment which will ultimately send
you to doldrums. So, frankly, do not go for it. It never works, as either of
the 2 people always have some feelings left for the other person.
Destroy
their photographs, gifts etc.:
Yes! Take
some lessons from Jab We Met and apply it in your own life. This will actually
help. The time you will do it will be the most difficult one, but once you are
done with it, hell yeah, you gonna come out fresh! So, do not skip this
point at any cost.
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| YES, IT DOES |
Don’t go
for another relationship:
This is
the biggest blunder people commit after a break-up, of going for another
relationship in order to move on with their past life. It hardly
works. If it was simply that easy, no one would ever need to read an article
about letting go and moving on from a relationship that’s ended.
Time
heels everything. So, keep patience and let things come back to normal. And,
you will be amazed to see that with the time and space you’ve allowed
yourself, you’ll be able to better understand if this new relationship is one
that will be healthy and positive.
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Everyone Falls in love and also eventually fall out :) Happens... Really sometimes its hard to move on. But faith is important. Thanks for sharing this article... Helpful
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You know such posts from you alwayz make me wonder whether you are speaking from some sort of experience
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There is always some experience involved, but it will remain unclear who had that experience :P
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