Be Good, But Don’t Do This 1 Thing ~ Simply Said

Saturday, 26 April 2014

Be Good, But Don’t Do This 1 Thing

Saturday, April 26, 2014 By Varun Singh Life, Memoirs, Social, Tips 10 comments

I often see people around me unhappy or depressed even more than the times they are happy. On interrogating about their problem, I have come across different sort of reasons that makes them gloomy.

Please do!

Here, I won’t be putting up the list of reasons that make people sad, as that would be pretty lame and seem to be endless in a way! But, I will tell 1 reason that makes most of the people unhappy. By the way, it is my perspective and you are not entitled to agree. However, do care to read till the end to find about the reason and a solution to it. May be, this post will bring up the jolly-you out! Who knows?

Everybody is good at heart (if not every time, then at least, some of the time), believe it or not. But, sometimes we want to hear it from people (read: a lot of people) that they find us to be a good person. That statement, though small, but has the power to make our day. It can also bring us back from doldrums. In short, it can change the picture of our life for a few hours or a day or two (depends).

You Are Truly Amazing The Way You Are!

However, on the process of forming a good-guy image compels us to do a lot of stuffs for countless number of people. And that thing my friend, doesn’t always pay back well. Sometimes there is not even a mere thank you. Other sweet gestures are way too much to contemplate about. And, this eventually turns out to be the reason for us being downcast.

We know we are good (believe me) but what goes wrong is that we try to prove it to everybody out there, which is not a great thing to do. We need to understand that in life we can’t make everyone happy. We need to stand on our grounds and be what we are and do what we like, if inner-peace is what we are looking forward to.

Exactly!

So, there is no need to portray what we are not for mere plaudits which are not durable. Instead, we should be what we actually are and have a little patience, then the most appropriate people will automatically come into our lives. That way, we won’t have to chase people and eventually make ourselves doleful.

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